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post #1951 of 1964 (permalink) Old 03-23-2017, 05:29 PM
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00:43 in.... that was me, in 1977

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00:43 in.... that was me, in 1977

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and that is just the beginning LOL. Hope they all went uphill from there
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Ok fellas need some advise:

So two weeks ago I met with realtor to list the house. She took pics and drafted an agreement. Mb and I initially (last year) agreed on a listing price were we thought we should be. I listed AT that price.

I e-signed the form and then it went over to MB. Well, im sure you can guess what's happened. She hasn't signed it yet.

Now a something you should know..I am making the mortgage payments as I am the one living in the house. However, in our d-agreement it states I recoup any principal paid during this time when we go to closing. I have been making the payments alone since last Jan.

So basically delays caused by her are only costing HER money. I am in no rush to sell and any delay only costs HER money.

What's my course of action here? Im sure shes just delaying to get me to react. I haven't reacted at all and have been just advising the relator to keep following up with her. Should I stay this course?

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How long ago was it sent to MB?

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Stay the course.........
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How long ago was it sent to MB?
2 weeks ago

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Gents update from bizarre world...

So needless to say, the house listing has not been signed by MB.

Lets forget for a second she was the one pushing for it to sell as well as every month its not listed I get to recoup $500 based on our d-agreement.

I have broken off all communication with MB, in my eyes there is nothing further to discuss. We are signed, sealed and delivered.

So two weeks into the delay my realtor advises that MB 'NEEDS' to speak with me. I communicated to the realtor that anything regarding the house can be relayed as the realtor working as a 3rd party. Mainly to just have a 3rd set of ears in case anything goes down.

I hear nothing for about a week until my lawyer reaches out to me saying we have an offer from MB. She has offered to buy my interest out of the home for roughly half of what its worth. I decline the offer and counter (through my laywer) for 95%. I also specifically advise I will not go back and forth and if she doesn't accept I want to list.

A week goes by, nothing.

My realtor reaches out again, MB still needs to speak with me. Wont say why. Gives me a 1 hour window to call her on Friday.

I took that one hour window to go to my lawyer and file a motion with the court to execute the divorce agreement as specified.

The reason for me providing this update is for anyone who is weak right now and in the beginning stages. I was so weak to MB and all her so called moves. I would have jumped at the chance to talk to her. Now I am looking for ways to avoid her.

YOU WILL GET PAST THIS. YOU CAN GET YOUR BALL$ BACK. LISTEN TO THESE GUYS, THEY WILL GET YOU THERE!

You guys want to know what I worry about now....what meat I want to grill tonight, lime or lemon in my corona and doggie or reverse cowgirl with my girlfriend!

STAY STRONG MY FRIENDS

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Well done, Unbe.


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Gents update from bizarre world...

So needless to say, the house listing has not been signed by MB.

Lets forget for a second she was the one pushing for it to sell as well as every month its not listed I get to recoup $500 based on our d-agreement.

I have broken off all communication with MB, in my eyes there is nothing further to discuss. We are signed, sealed and delivered.

So two weeks into the delay my realtor advises that MB 'NEEDS' to speak with me. I communicated to the realtor that anything regarding the house can be relayed as the realtor working as a 3rd party. Mainly to just have a 3rd set of ears in case anything goes down.

I hear nothing for about a week until my lawyer reaches out to me saying we have an offer from MB. She has offered to buy my interest out of the home for roughly half of what its worth. I decline the offer and counter (through my laywer) for 95%. I also specifically advise I will not go back and forth and if she doesn't accept I want to list.

A week goes by, nothing.

My realtor reaches out again, MB still needs to speak with me. Wont say why. Gives me a 1 hour window to call her on Friday.

I took that one hour window to go to my lawyer and file a motion with the court to execute the divorce agreement as specified.

The reason for me providing this update is for anyone who is weak right now and in the beginning stages. I was so weak to MB and all her so called moves. I would have jumped at the chance to talk to her. Now I am looking for ways to avoid her.

YOU WILL GET PAST THIS. YOU CAN GET YOUR BALL$ BACK. LISTEN TO THESE GUYS, THEY WILL GET YOU THERE!

You guys want to know what I worry about now....what meat I want to grill tonight, lime or lemon in my corona and doggie or reverse cowgirl with my girlfriend!

STAY STRONG MY FRIENDS
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Whole point Unbe is this..... she could have taken you to the cleaners on the house.... be honest.

At one time..... yeah, yeah. This was a part of her leverage, and it went up in smoke.

This is a long game, even dating back to 2013..... now with your eyes @ 50k.... nice ain't it?

See..... we guys see what you can't....and now.......

Use that knowledge Luke....
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Whole point Unbe is this..... she could have taken you to the cleaners on the house.... be honest.

At one time..... yeah, yeah. This was a part of her leverage, and it went up in smoke.

This is a long game, even dating back to 2013..... now with your eyes @ 50k.... nice ain't it?

See..... we guys see what you can't....and now.......

Use that knowledge Luke....
She thought you would fold Unbe.

How's that working out for her?
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You guys want to know what I worry about now....what meat I want to grill tonight, lime or lemon in my corona and doggie or reverse cowgirl with my girlfriend!

STAY STRONG MY FRIENDS
I like NY strips, lime, I prefer girl on top face to face, love the expressions (you shouldn't have to do all the work)

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