Re: Long sotry, prob familar. Need some support
1.) Separate your finances. Close all joint accounts. Cancel all joint credit cards.
2.) Change the locks on your home.
3.) Retain legal counsel. Start the D paperwork.
From what you've told us so far, this should be an easy D. No kids, and only 2 years means no alimony, most likely.
Get it done as quickly as possible to minimize any drama.
"A healthy choice to enforce boundaries by walking away from a dysfunctional relationship has more to do with recognizing the likeliest outcomes than with wanting to punish or retaliate against one's wayward spouse."
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