As the roller coaster goes, I am now trying to find quotes that may help us all, specially those just starting this process. I am not feeling bad like the other day. As days go by I find really great information, i even learn by thinking about life and what I have gone through.
Anyway, I found this comment in a website called since my divorce,
"Have you heard the expression “Never regret anything that has made you smile?” I like that – some people look back and say ‘I married the wrong guy.’ Apparently you didn’t – you married somebody you thought you loved. You married someone you thought you were going to be with the rest of your life. You can’t regret that.
I was seeing myself as a failure because I couldn’t please rather than recognizing that we each served a purpose to each other and then the purpose was served and it was time to move on. It wasn’t necessarily a failure.
Recognizing that I can learn something from every encounter, every experience and every relationship is pretty significant."
I loved how this person sees her marriage/divorce, that's they right way to see it I think. Less drama.