10-06-2010, 09:41 AM
Join Date: Jan 2010
| | Re: Wife Moved Out Yesterday.
I don't think you're a wimp. Personally, if my spouse cheated, I'd never have anything to do with him again. That's MY limit.
Basically, she is not a friend of your marriage right now. That alone gives you the right to walk away any time you want.
The only reason I'd give you a hard time is if you said you wanted to work to save the marriage, because THAT would entail totally different advice.
I actually often advise people to go out and live their own lives, give the spouse a taste of their own medicine. PLUS, it gives you a sense of your being able to survive without them, if that's what ends up happening.
I wish you peace.