09-20-2010, 11:01 AM
Join Date: Aug 2010
| | Re: how can someone do this to another person?
I dont know what to believe either. I am having a hard time believing that there isnt someone else that my wife is leaving me for, but its so hard and confusing not knowing. When you love someone so much, you want to believe them, but you cant help but wonder what the hells going on. I havent been helping her in any way as far as the divorse papers are conserned and I am purposely making it hard for her which I know isnt right, but I cant seem to let go yet. On top of that, I even told her that if there is someone else involved, this would be the time to tell me, because there isnt anything else to lose. And that I would not hesitate, not for a second, to get this done with, but she still claimes that there isnt anyone. I keep telling myself I believe her, but what reason besides that would someone who loved you so much for so long, and never even had a fight our entire mariage, would not even consider working on things. Just, a short conversation where she said she wasnt happy anymore, didnt love me anymore and that she was leaving and wanted a divorse. Nothing else, I tried to offer any kind of counsiling, any kind of options where we could work on things so I at least know we tried, but no. Just, its over, see you when I come pick up my things. So, like you, I dont know what to do and I dont know what went so wrong that someone would just throw away everything without a second thought. Sorry I cant help, but youre not alone