10-07-2010, 12:48 AM
Join Date: Aug 2010
| | Re: Wife and kids walked out yesterday
healingme has added an important part that I missed. Yes you are hurt, and yes you are in love with her, and yes you are the man that protects her and the confident, strong person she choose to marry.
Remember, she most likely married you because you showed her your confidence, you can protect her and comfort her.
So you are at the "fork", are you going to show your commitment to your vows or let her move on?
Make no mistake I'm not saying you need to be johnny bad ass, but you need to be strong. It is so easy to be weak and have self pity. It is really really tuff to be the strong person that, I think you need to be. Show her you care but will move on if she decides to pail out.
Only you know the best course of action, and good luck