10-07-2010, 06:20 PM
Join Date: Aug 2010
| | Re: Wife Has Said There is Nothing I Can Do To Save Our Marriage
Muscle and Orion have it. It looks like there has been plenty opportunity to learn and grow through this relationship and it hasn't happened. Now she has told you she is 'done' (exactly the word I used with my stbxh) now you choose to listen.
It seems all a bit too-little-too-late, but it isn't too late for you to work on the things that have caused your marriage to falter. Whether she chooses to work on it with you or not, there is still some healing for you to do and definitely some fixing as well. I know a lot of people would just give up, go back to what they're comfortable with, but that is just a lazy option and you can't expect to grow that way.
What I'm saying is, regardless of whether this is definitely the end of your marriage, you have to work on yourself and help yourself through your own issues and through this time as well.