Re: losing a whole family..it sucks
You need to go visit your in-laws. If you were close, and you miss them go see them. If you cry, that's ok. It's expected. Don't do things to put them in the middle. Don't expect them to take sides. They know you both and if they're inviting you, they obviously love you both. I have been divorced for 12 years and still have a good relationship with my technically ex-in-laws. I don't see them as often, but the love is still there. Just go. It's was strange for me at first, but I'm glad I did it. I would have lost such wonderful family members if I had continued to avoid them. And yes, I still consider them my family!