10-19-2010, 10:44 PM
Join Date: Oct 2010
| | Re: Is this really cheating?
Originally Posted by misspuppy
i dont know where you live or what not, but, in my state, as long as you are still legally married, what you both did is commit adultery that can be held up in court by BOTH sides. 2 wrongs do NOT make it right. Even if you feel what you did was "just felt good" or " was comfortable" no matter, you both cheated and need to get some counseling. Until you are divorced and you keep this kind of thing up, one of you will go after the other legally. I am not trying to be harsh, but, it is true. get a lawyer and start the divorce proceedings now to end this. it will be best for both of you.
I know that 2 wrongs do not make it right, but we have been to counseling a few times and I thought he would finally tell the truth and it seemed like it was helping us, till I found out it was a lie what he had told me in the sessions! I have been trying for all these months and we will be getting divorced now. We have no relationship what so ever, the only time we talk is when he wants to spend time with our children but that is it! He does not live with us anymore since that is what he wanted! I guess I am just confuesed why he is hurt if I go on a date after all he has done!