Re: Is this really cheating?
i dont know where you live or what not, but, in my state, as long as you are still legally married, what you both did is commit adultery that can be held up in court by BOTH sides. 2 wrongs do NOT make it right. Even if you feel what you did was "just felt good" or " was comfortable" no matter, you both cheated and need to get some counseling. Until you are divorced and you keep this kind of thing up, one of you will go after the other legally. I am not trying to be harsh, but, it is true. get a lawyer and start the divorce proceedings now to end this. it will be best for both of you.