10-27-2010, 05:21 PM
Join Date: Oct 2010
| | Re: Any success with 180 degree divorce busters?
Today, I began the 180 method. I actually got an opportunity to see the affects fairly quickly. I made some plans to hang out with some coworkers tonight. Then my wife calls and says that since our daughter is sick and since she would be hanging out with me tomorrow because of no school, she rather she stay with me this evening. When I told her that we would have to work something out because today was not my day to have her, and because I had already made plans, she didn't seem to like it very much. I hope this works. I'm gonna stay the course. I also noticed from the computer's history that she'd looked up quotes about forgiveness to post on facebook. Now her lack of forgiveness is one of the reasons we find ourselves in this situation. I'm not saying that nothing I did didn't warrant some anger, but as a Christian, I believe what the bible says about love being blind. She may have been also mad because I think she found out that I'd saved an excel file of all her cell phone activity. She may have even gotten on here, as she did a few days ago to read what was being posted. Who knows, but I will stay the course. Do you all perceive these as good signs or not? If she did these things, which I really believe she did, why would she if she was "checked out" or "done" with this relationship?