Re: separation is killing me, help!
the dr. rice questions came up tonite. she very much liked dr. rice, mostly because he listened, didn't dismiss her "complaints," and ASKED THAT I RESCHEDULE SESSIONS TO WEDNESDAYS SO SHE COULD ATTEND REGULARLY!!! dr. rice said she would do that IF SHE WERE INVESTED IN HEALING THE MARRIAGE!!! I believe i have a chance! now, don't blow it, stay sober, be a good father, always be there, etc.
by the way, we had an incredibly good time at the jim gaffigan show. he's a clean, FUNNY comedian. if you ever get the chance, go see him.
my kids are thrilled at the developments tonight. my 11 yr old daughter made us a "have fun tonite" card and wrote "be back before midnight" inside and put a gaffigan cd inside to remind her of our fun. mom thought that was sweet, scored some points there, and i got her an autograph for the scrapbook.
tonight, i'm on cloud nine. i think the work is paying off. and i took her out to one of my old drinkin' haunts, had dinner, bought a beer for beth (to show her "no hard feelings" if she wanted a beverage) and i had a diet coke. no problems, i think she was not uncomfortable with the presence of alcohol.
separated, honoring wife and family daily, she deserves the best me i can give her.
4 kids g18, g12, g11, b7
Last edited by voivod; 09-13-2008 at 11:01 PM.