12-18-2010, 10:09 PM
Join Date: Sep 2009
| | Re: Separated .. What to do next?
Yeah, no kidding. Separate those bank accounts NOW. And find yourself a lawyer. Pronto.
Do you have all of your important papers--car titles, leases, mortgage papers, tax returns, bank records, etc.? If your stbx hasn't taken them already, make sure you have them. You'll need them when you see the lawyer.
I know you want to be friendly now, and your stbx may want that, too. But it's good for you to be prepared in case he changes his mind.