12-26-2010, 07:34 AM
Join Date: Nov 2010
| | Re: unbelievable sadness
Wish I had all the answers, wish I could tell you everything right to do, but If I could, I wouldn't be in my situation in the first place...seems like the longer I go into our separation, I find fewer answers, just more questions...I do know that you can get stronger, I do know, even at that age, your kids can be the greatest support and provide the love you need...the pain doesn't really go away, it just becomes different...right now, rather than inhibiting me from functioning, it is driving me to become better...the pain is there, but it is more a motivation to make things right, rather a reminder of how wrong they are...I'm using the pain rather than it knocking me down (hope this makes sense)...
I also know that reading/posting here is also a great place to keep you from going crazier...