Re: Living together while separated
waterfall: I do not have an advice but feel your heartache and actually feel if from the opposite perspective. Meaning...I am the one who wants to get out of the marriage and I know my husband is/will feel exactly like you. I too wish we can stay in home until things are to a final close, yet, I know that is honestly unrealstic. Especially when one is still so much into wanting and trying to make it work. I do not come from a family of any divorcee's so for me to take the first step is so devasting to me but I need to be happy and I cannot let materialistic items be the replacement. It will only resurface again in time.
Not sure what I expected to give you by this post other than even though I maybe on your spouses 'side' of things, I completely feel for your worries. That's definately something I am not looking forward to having to cope with.