Join Date: May 2008
Location: south wales. uk
Re: Husband wants me to come home... I don't think I want to
i think you already know alot in your heart.
id go for the more space myself and i have been in your situation many a time.
his behaviour wil revert back very quickly. i cant say you can change him, maybe you can. i changed my husband, but its taken 13 yrs and the degree of a one night in april this year before he changed.
but i agree with your drunken whim , why should you only be considered when that times arrives for him.
i dont think two weeks is long enough but thats me personally.
if you both want your marriage you wil try.
maybe when your ready , if your ready ,start the dating going again.
maybe give it a bit more time, suggest going out for a meal and communicate and maybe he might realise what hes giving up.
but no, you dont deserve to be treated like that. shoe on the other foot , you havent treated him like it.