02-08-2011, 02:17 PM
Join Date: Dec 2010
| | Re: having a difficult day
Originally Posted by Why Not Be Happy?
it isn't fair to the boys (or you because you have to deal with it)-----I know you shouldn't have to; but why not say something to him about it?
I feel if I say anthing to him about it....he would go on the defense and then think I am just trying to hurt his feelings or something. Last week when we were at his apt....I left him a note....nothing bad....just basically telling him how much I love him but hate the situation. Yes, I would like for us to get back together, but as each day passes I realize that is not going to happen....but I told him that I want him to be happy within himself and with someone else. As of this moment...he hasnt acknowledged that letter.....positive or negative comments....which makes me realize....him saying nothing...says everything. He does not want me and unfortunatley the boys are in the middle.