Now what are Feelingalone and Crankshaw drinking? Crankshaw I hope you are not somewhere flooded in Oz, maybe you can throw something on the "Barbie" as you call BBQ there?
Now what are Feelingalone and Crankshaw drinking? Crankshaw I hope you are not somewhere flooded in Oz, maybe you can throw something on the "Barbie" as you call BBQ there?
FA isn't weighing in (must be passed out from all the beer) lol
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Crankshaw
Actually going to sit down with my sister soon and share a bottle of good white Australian wine
Now what are Feelingalone and Crankshaw drinking? Crankshaw I hope you are not somewhere flooded in Oz, maybe you can throw something on the "Barbie" as you call BBQ there?
Nothing alcoholic has passed my lips for ages !
Na, if you fire up google maps, search for Bendigo, Victoria, that pretty much where I am at the moment, all the flooding is a long way from here.
FA isn't weighing in (must be passed out from all the beer) lol
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Niiiiiiice!
I reckon I could probably get 2 glasses before I am completely drunk ! (probably, I rarely drink alcohol, nothing against it, not a fuddy duddy or anything like that!)
I reckon I could probably get 2 glasses before I am completely drunk ! (probably, I rarely drink alcohol, nothing against it, not a fuddy duddy or anything like that!)
If not drinking alot of alcohol makes u a fuddy duddy, then so am I lol
And I can drink two beers and feel it so, you're not alone
Nope didn't pass out. Just enjoyed a movie and then reading. I drink mostly light beer as well.
So how many squats do you have to do today JAG? Those commercials are great!!!! Me I don't have to do any -- worked out yesterday before the beer. First day of P90X -- whoo.
Nope didn't pass out. Just enjoyed a movie and then reading. I drink mostly light beer as well.
So how many squats do you have to do today JAG? Those commercials are great!!!! Me I don't have to do any -- worked out yesterday before the beer. First day of P90X -- whoo.
Well off I go.
I was only kidding! You just weren't responding so i was making an effort to be funny.
No squats for me either....Diet Mt. Dew doesn't have any calories lol yet it's light
Whew! P90X is tough....you think you're in shape until you work out to those! I'll be hitting the gym this week for my cardio and weight lifting....and maybe some squats lol
Have a good day!
I'm off to baseball practice this afternoon! LOVE IT!
If you guys want to work out you are more than welcomed to come and visit me in Canada. We have a sport here called snow shoveling. Very popular in the winter
Okay---the baseball comment got me. My youngest son has started training/practice for high school baseball (pre-season). Batting cages, stratches, etc.-----all inside! And because of all the snow here in NH it'll be who knows how long before we get outside-----snow, more snow, cold....then mud season----then rain and another "freak" snow storm and then finally outdoor baseball on a field------so I'm jealous of you and your son getting to play outside.
any of you guys ever do "Boot Camp" classes? nice compliment to other training.
you must be "wired" with all the caffeine in your DEW.
enjoy your Sunday!
any new word from your husband, JAG?
I did bootcamp class in October for about a month. It was great. It was indoors. I really like the kickboxing based bootcamp. I could run for days on the threadmill and I won't break a sweat but this was really good. However I have to be careful with my sciatica what I do for exercize. I am thinking of swimming that's more low impact.
Why Not Be Happy?
Okay---the baseball comment got me. My youngest son has started training/practice for high school baseball (pre-season). Batting cages, stratches, etc.-----all inside! And because of all the snow here in NH it'll be who knows how long before we get outside-----snow, more snow, cold....then mud season----then rain and another "freak" snow storm and then finally outdoor baseball on a field------so I'm jealous of you and your son getting to play outside.
any of you guys ever do "Boot Camp" classes? nice compliment to other training.
you must be "wired" with all the caffeine in your DEW.
enjoy your Sunday!
any new word from your husband, JAG?
We had a great couple of baseball days....a little chilly but it was good to watch my little baseball player!
New word from H....hmmm not really.
I mean, we've worked out a schedule w/my son.
I've seen him, he says he loves me, misses me/us and has said I didn't have to leave, I could come home....We were around one another at the bb evals and practice yest. We get along, and have had an easier time talking about this and that. It feels just like it did when we were married, only I don't feel resentment, bitterness and stress around him now.
I know when I leave, I don't have to carry all that around and he can deal w/life how ever he sees fit. What do you guys think? If I don't feel anything other than "friendship" and "relief" now...what does that mean?
It's never a nice thing when family breaks up. I know in my case, even though husband cheated, disrespected me to heaven and back, I know things could have worked out if there was willingness on both sides. Not a day goes by that I don't think what would be like to have my family back. I think out of everything that happened I miss that the most.
Now is he willing to work things out? I don't know your story in detail but I would not give up yet. You can be separated and try to do counselling together, date each other see how things progress from there. You can always get a divorce. At least in this country that is a quickie procedure. You married this guy so at one point you must have loved him more than a "friend". Sometimes those feelings are buried at the bottom and all you have to do is reach for them.
I know when I leave, I don't have to carry all that around and he can deal w/life how ever he sees fit. What do you guys think? If I don't feel anything other than "friendship" and "relief" now...what does that mean?
Ah baseball. I'm going to miss that this year. My lil guy wanted to do karate which unfortunately is twice a week in the evenings when the weekly practice and weeknight game happens. I've coached the last four seasons and I will miss it and the time I got with him doing that. Hopefully back at it next spring or maybe fall ball.
I think it just means that your resentment has lowered since moving out. And that is most likely a good thing -- you will see things clearer whether good or bad about your relationship. Although I did notice that you used the phrase "just like when we were married". A freudian slip perhaps or have you already decided?
Re: Guilt! 
