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Old 02-13-2011, 06:41 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Was just hoping to let the day slide on past...now the boy has a basketball game and she will be there with the MiL...

I am not going to get her anything...I am going to be strong...
I am not going to get her anything...I am going to be strong...
I am not going to get her anything...I am going to be strong...
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Old 02-13-2011, 08:27 PM   #2 (permalink)
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You can do this!!! Instead of buying "her" something....buy some candy and give it to a complete stranger!! I think I will do the same!!!
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Buy yourself something and enjoy! Forget about her.

I was at the store today and saw some great looking chocolate covered strawberries. If I hadn't killed my diet so thoroughly yesterday I would've gotten them for tomorrow.
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Buy yourself something and enjoy! Forget about her.

I was at the store today and saw some great looking chocolate covered strawberries. If I hadn't killed my diet so thoroughly yesterday I would've gotten them for tomorrow.
You deserve it!!! Go buy those chocolate covered strawberries and enjoy each and every one!!!
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You know why i hate tomorrow...because it's another day I'll be reminded that he doesn't love me anymore ...he doesn't even want to talk to me which means he doesn't want to pretend that he even likes me...even as a friend.
It's like I'll be reminded how much he hates me and our marriage.... I've had plenty of that already .

I'm crying...I'm watching the Grammy awards and Lady Antebellum are singing "I need you now" .
Gosh life really sucks sometimes!
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Vivea---I feel your pain!!! It is going to be very tough on me also tomorrow! But....you have to stay positive! You can do it!!!
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You can do this!!! Instead of buying "her" something....buy some candy and give it to a complete stranger!! I think I will do the same!!!
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You know why i hate tomorrow...because it's another day I'll be reminded that he doesn't love me anymore ...he doesn't even want to talk to me which means he doesn't want to pretend that he even likes me...even as a friend.
It's like I'll be reminded how much he hates me and our marriage.... I've had plenty of that already .
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You deserve it!!! Go buy those chocolate covered strawberries and enjoy each and every one!!!
Nah, it's not like I haven't partaken of some treats. I chowed down on goodies last Tuesday..a customer gave me a bunch of yummy cakes/pastries and I ate a BUNCH of them (saved some for the kids). Totally trashed my diet. Then yesterday I took my daughter out for dinner and we got dessert, I had some beer..It was a great meal. I try and do that on weekends only. During the week I want to be good so I can feel and look great!

Today I was good and tomorrow I will be good. I'm not sweating tomorrow. Don't much care. I had a great weekend and I have a pretty good day scheduled for work. I'll come home and play some on the computer and it'll be as nice a Monday as I can have. 52 degrees tomorrow! Woot!
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