Re: Ex Wife or New Girlfriend?
Well, that is a tough decision. From my perspective Im going to say that I was cheated on too and no matter who it is, its very hard to trust entirely like you used to.
Its like either way, you'll not know how it should've, could've, would've gone with the other. With the ex wife you have history, you know so much about her already and it seems you both love each other still, to what extent Im not sure. It seems this is something you could get through.
But, this other girl, she's new, you get to learn all about her. Everything is fresh and new, and its always exciting. She may be unlike your ex wife or very much like her.
It really is up to you. Are you going to be okay with moving on? Or will your ex wife be in your head. Ive known a bunch of people, who have prematurely moved on, and after a few months with someone else, began to regret their decision. Just think thoroughly about why you love your ex wife so much and are those reasons enough to stay?, or are you really ready to move on. Having love in your heart for someone else, seems like you're not that ready to make the leap. I wish you luck friend. I can say that if it were me, I'd give my ex a chance, especially if there's still love there. The trust would need to be rebuilt, but love doesn't just die easily. Or it shouldn't anyway.
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