and the C*nt <--- I never use that word..
Swore on our youngest's life there was no one.. Now he's texting asking if he can drop her present off on her bday, I've told him to post it, he's asked if he can bring it after they're in bed... I just said you've made yourself clear, so have we, there's no point you driving for an hour is there.. (he moaned about driving here on Sat)
He said I want to make sure it gets there in tact..
I just replied send it recorded it will be fine. Good bye Liam.
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Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it. . . . It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk anything, you risk even more.
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Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it. . . . It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk anything, you risk even more.
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I firmly believe that love is a game of control, or maybe true love is a game of giving up control...and if both give up control, then neither have it but the shared one do...
bad love contols us like pawns on a chess board...
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Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it. . . . It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk anything, you risk even more.
I really don't even understand how people like your H can do that. Maybe he has been cheating for awhile and made it all about you.
Well he hasn't cheated in the past I'm pretty sure of that, but seeing as we were together since we were 15 and I was his first girlfriend, he's probably making up for lost time....
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Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it. . . . It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk anything, you risk even more.
I guess i'm thinking over the past few months or year. A lot of the time these issues arise, there can be another person. Specifically there are a few stories I've read on here where the timing of a new woman and an escalation in fighting/separation happen at the same time.
I guess i'm thinking over the past few months or year. A lot of the time these issues arise, there can be another person. Specifically there are a few stories I've read on here where the timing of a new woman and an escalation in fighting/separation happen at the same time.
He left me for 'her' in Oz, it didn't work out, he told me today it's his biggest regret... wished he'd worked on us... riiiiiight... Anyway, he's found someone else.. I give up..
He's just tried to call, left a vmail.. ignored. I am not wasting my time, tears and love on him any more. I don't know how he just turns it all off, he said he hasn't he still loves me a bit and cares, he's just a bastard and it's easier for him not to do anything.. Well I am obviously not worth the fight....
I got over him being with someone else, knowing it could never work out, willing to work on everything.. but now.. I just feel sick... the children are in bed, the tv is on but Lord know's whats on.. I don't know who this woman is, anything about her.. I hope she's a psycho and chops him into tiny pieces.. yeah I know that wont happen... I asked him if he knew how scared I was about Monday... he just said no... my Liam has well and truly left the building..
I'm done. I've cried.. I physically hurt.. but I have 3 small people depending on me.. Keep moving forward..
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Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it. . . . It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk anything, you risk even more.
AmI..you are gorgeous honey...someone will be lucky to have you.
He is such a a loser...and he can't see that at the moment but i guarantee you he will one day when he sees you with someone else that adores you and adores your kids...
This new woman will be just that...a new woman..when the novelty wears off he will see that the grass in not greener and realize that if you can't handle one woman you won't be able to handle other...he needs to learn... unfortunately he will realize this and it'll be too late...you will move on and he'll be lonely and miserable till the rest of his life...
hugs babe...
I just feel so sick, I keep remembering, I stupidly had some hope of us getting back together, I don't understand why he could just do this, love someone for 15 years then just stop.
I just dont understand..
Thanks Viv, not the best pic.. so many people have told me I was far to good for my H, but you can't help who you fall in love with.
I am seriously not bothering with him, I am not ever answering the phone or telling him anything. I really needed him Monday, but I don't want him there, he'll be thinking of someone else, not his wife..
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Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it. . . . It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk anything, you risk even more.
I just feel so sick, I keep remembering, I stupidly had some hope of us getting back together, I don't understand why he could just do this, love someone for 15 years then just stop.
yep, understand exactly where you are coming from.
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Thanks Viv, not the best pic.. so many people have told me I was far to good for my H, but you can't help who you fall in love with.
No, you have a better pic
And no, you can't help who you fall in love with.
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I am seriously not bothering with him, I am not ever answering the phone or telling him anything. I really needed him Monday, but I don't want him there, he'll be thinking of someone else, not his wife..
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Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it. . . . It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk anything, you risk even more.
Well, this might not be the best thing to say..but he did you a BIG favor. You now know his TRUE colors. He's not "confused" or "hurt" or "scared". He's a dyed in the wool AHOLE!! A big a*ss FU*K who does nothing but commit adultery and walk all over everyone else due to his selfish desires. Hopefully he'll catch some sort of communicable disease and his penis will fall off and he'll die broke and alone.
Blew off his kid's birthday to screw around with another woman? Nice.
Treats his sick wife like dirt and spits all over her when she's down? Real nice.
And to START this mess: He went off to AUSTRALIA and abandoned his family? Oh yeah, he's a prince!
Now YOU KNOW. Stay the F away from his sorry a*ss! You are doing GREAT. Giving him that ultimatum was AWESOME! Telling him to mail the present! Double awesome!! Keep hanging up on him. Don't respond to ANY of texts or calls. Next thing you SEND HIM are the papers to divorce him.
Get yourself a lawyer and sue him for every dime he's got for child support. Let him have it!!
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Telling him to mail the present! Double awesome!!
Keep hanging up on him. Don't respond to ANY of texts or calls. Next thing you SEND HIM are the papers to divorce him. 
!! YOU GO GIRL!! 
