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Old 03-30-2011, 02:39 PM   #1006 (permalink)
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Haha. That is funny. Hopefully his a-- has gotten bruised. Karma bruises!




I offer up mine. As of today, he is my ex-husband. I have rope if you want to tie him to the volcano before it erupts [/QUOTE]

what, to tie to his ankles and dangle him over the edge, slowly cooking him ?
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Old 03-30-2011, 02:43 PM   #1007 (permalink)
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^ No, no. That's just harsh---the slow roast. Might as well just throw him in there quickly

Hahaha.
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Old 03-30-2011, 02:50 PM   #1008 (permalink)
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^ No, no. That's just harsh---the slow roast. Might as well just throw him in there quickly

Hahaha.
I would just like to make sure they feel some of the pain & suffering we have gone through, sorry :hangs head in shame:

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Old 03-30-2011, 03:08 PM   #1009 (permalink)
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Haha. Ok either way works fine!
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Old 03-30-2011, 03:15 PM   #1010 (permalink)
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Wow get posting, gotta get that record huh! lol

I'm having a crappy evening, just had a break down to my Mum, had a good cry, got told off, all I am craving is a hug, I am one of these people when I feel ill, all I want is a cuddle up and to feel looked after, instead I am dealing with it on my own, I'm curled up on the sofa, Family Guy on in the background with my little girls fleecey blanket over me. I feel very loney tonight
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Old 03-30-2011, 04:06 PM   #1011 (permalink)
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Haha. That is funny. Hopefully his a-- has gotten bruised. Karma bruises!



I offer up mine. As of today, he is my ex-husband. I have rope if you want to tie him to the volcano before it erupts
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Old 03-30-2011, 07:43 PM   #1012 (permalink)
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^ Glad I could make ya laugh

Mad, what has your mom said about the entire thing?
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Old 03-31-2011, 03:48 AM   #1013 (permalink)
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My Mum has been really hurt over it all.

But now she is just really angry wants me to forget him and move on, to stop crying over him, he's not going to change, he's not going to come back. She's seen the hurt the children and I have gone through and she's said if we got back togther she wouldn't be welcoming him back with open arms.


I had another nightmare last night I am hoping this one doesn't come true He told me her name was 'Kerry' *sigh*
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Old 03-31-2011, 06:56 AM   #1014 (permalink)
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Yes, its hard for your mum to see you go thru this, and her grandchildren.

If a Kerry appears in this story, you are going to start a new career - you hear me!
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Old 03-31-2011, 10:36 AM   #1015 (permalink)
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Moms make the world go round. I am 30 and still have times where I miss her and wish she were close so she could make me a soup and tell me eerything will be okay. As nurturing as my mother is, she also slapped me across the head with some verbal statemetns of "MOVE ON/HE's A FOOL/YOU DESERVE better."

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Old 03-31-2011, 12:02 PM   #1016 (permalink)
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Haha, my mom's been all over this from the get go. Took all she had to not call him or corner him when she was here. To be fair, she only knew about everything as of three weeks ago. She is coming this Sunday, too. She says he's already gone, and I need to just look out for myself and my kids. She's all about everything happening for a reason and that he isn't my reason. She says it's in God's hands and there is something better on the other side of this.
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Old 03-31-2011, 05:48 PM   #1017 (permalink)
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Moms make the world go round. I am 30 and still have times where I miss her and wish she were close so she could make me a soup and tell me eerything will be okay. As nurturing as my mother is, she also slapped me across the head with some verbal statemetns of "MOVE ON/HE's A FOOL/YOU DESERVE better."

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sht Im 50 and my mom is still one my best friends. not jacking your thread just trying to help you get that record
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Old 03-31-2011, 05:50 PM   #1018 (permalink)
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sht Im 50 and my mom is still one my best friends. not jacking your thread just trying to help you get that record
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record? I thought records had been replaced by the cd
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Old 03-31-2011, 11:11 PM   #1019 (permalink)
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I just thought that I could actually be divorced later on in the year.. he hasn't filed as far as I know, we've not discussed it. The sickening feeling washing over me is horrendous
So you will know when he files you will be served with D papers, I have no idea how it works in the UK but here it usually takes at least a year, 8 months is the fastest I have heard of.
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Old 04-01-2011, 09:39 AM   #1020 (permalink)
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^ Where do you live, Brew?

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, AMIMAD!
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