Re: Now what? "I love you and I always will..."
I am sorry you are going through this. The only thing I can say to you is this. You need to list some activities you can do when you have the urge to call or text him. Think of yourself. You are beating yourself up because of HIS feelings. Just let him talk to the kids,if you need to discuss something such as the ear infection, just text ththe basics. Don't discuss your feelings.
I tried discussing how I felt,how he felt,what can we do,etc.... itdid not work until I thought of myself and how unhappy the situation was making me and my kids. I was ANGRY! He had the issues that he didn't want to cope and handle the stress,not me! When he figured out that I was no longer his emotional doormat,that is when everything changed. You really don't want to get to the point I did because I was ready to walk out. You need to set your boundries, and stick to it or you will keep this emotional roller coaster going. It is not fun! Get off the roller coaster and do what you need to for you! Good luck and hugs coming your way!
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