05-01-2012, 03:04 PM
Join Date: Dec 2010
| | Re: Now what? "I love you and I always will..."
Originally Posted by jenny123
I didn't read your whole story, but so glad to hear the wonderful outcome. It really gives hope to all of us that are currently going through this hell.
I would love to hear other peoples outcomes that don't post anymore. I guess once the black cloud is gone, you really don't need this forum anymore.
Thank you for the update and good luck with the settlement agreement.
Thanks! Yes, it is a long and sordid tale, but brief version is the same. End story is that yes it sucks to be left (and/or cheated on) but life DOES go on and you will survive it and be happier at the end because of the self-discovery that you'll go through. Eye opening for sure!
I'll try to get the rest to come back and maybe we'll post a "Where are they now?" thread for those of us that have been in the process for a year or more. It actually helped me move forward by not coming back to TAM much. It's a lot of sadness, and the state that people are in, they don't really believe that things will get better even if the outcome isn't what they wanted. And if you go over to "Life after divorce" not many happy people post there. Sigh. But if a few people read this and get inspiration, then it's worth it.
Good luck to you!
__________________ ~ You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment if you don't trust enough. ~ Or, you could be a big sap and trust your husband, and he could end up being a lying, spineless, cheater.