denise1218

still doing the 180.....no texts since Thursday!

AmImad

So proud of you Girly!! remember this is for you!! xx

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Jellybeans

awesome!

denise1218

ok....need some advice. For those of you that know...I am trying to do the " 180"....I have not had any contact with my husband at all since last Thursday. Well....he just sent me a text....

H: Hi, Denise. Can we meet sometime to talk about the divorce and the house?

I just have to say...I am feeling sad right now.....he still wants a divorce....I was so hoping we could get past this. I love him so very much.

Oak

Denise,

So sorry that things are still progressing that direction. Remember that its not over until its over, unless you decide to stop trying.

Even though he may be taking note of the change in your behavior, and the lack of contact, he may not have had time to realize what he is losing. Maybe this meeting will be an opportunity for him to SEE the changes for himself.

Keep it cordial and professional, but stick to your 180 guidelines and remember what you want out of the situation. All that you can control is yourself :-)

Will be thinking of you.

Jellybeans

You reply: "Sure. Let's meet at X place at X time."