Today I woke well and I do not need to tell him that because he had nothing to do with it
Well I think the quiet day yesterday had something to do with it. Seems it took me about 3 days to recover from the loud
(swears he was not yelling or mad, just excited) *my a$$*
ongoing monologue that he gave me (it was not a conversation) about how his lack of money before payday was my fault. He wanted more accountability this time around and he has bills.
In reality he was just mad that I was right and 2+2=4. He was really counting on 2+2=3 so he would have spending money lol
I have earned my wet blanket insults well by being smart about money. I have earned my insults and digs about not being any fun, think too much and being a downer about money.
Guess what, when you have to get through the year on less that
20K and a 5 person household there is not much room for fun!!!!!!
So really he was just pissed that we had food and we were okay. He should be glad his kids are cared for but I swear that he was pissed and would have preferred I shorted them for his desires. Eff that, never again. Ever, the kids are first now.
Then the rant about me not letting him shower here. He can't understand why I wouldn't let him it is his house still. Hehehe noooo.... it's not. The courts have the papers and so do I and he signed giving me sole ownership of the lease here and this is MY apartment now. He lives down the road now where his bed and TV are, where his mail goes. If he wants a better place he can find one. (I had to secure that place for him to expedite getting him out)