04-06-2011, 10:27 PM
Join Date: Apr 2011
| | Almost a month....
I just know what to do? just about a month ago my wife left me because of several reasons...the main one is she thought i was cheating on her...i swear on our 4 month old daughter life i wasn't...she found an old dating site i used to be on that was in my junk mail...she had been thinking it for a while mainly because of what our relationship turn into ater the baby was born...i was so stressed...i'm a flat rate machanic and having 3 mouths to feed in the middle of winter was killing me..i ended up just sleeping when i can taking more time to myself when the baby was asleep and not realizing that i was totally neglecting the woman i loved...but i also realized that even when she was pregnant i was pretty much doing the samething....she was a complete write off during her pregnacy...she was off work for 7 months of it...and all i did was work and sleep trying to figure out how to make sure we didn't starve after Mya was born...i know i was being an a@@hole but i really didn't see it......but what the real kicker is that she called it quits after i sold one oif my cars and i lied to her about how much i sold it for....she found the remainder in my glove box....the truth is i was going to by her a new ring with it...i wanted to surprise her...bujt she didnt believe me. There were a few other things i couldn't her about some debt that i have and that was killing me too...i really didnt want to worry her with a baby that was on the way, i just wanted her to feel secure but i didnt see that while i thought i was trying to make sure she and the baby were secure my action were doing the complete opposite...
Am i the only retart that has done this? Is there anyway i can get her to trust me again??