Dove83

we both worked out at dinner to not have opposite sex friends and go out alone with them. yes at the time it was to get back at her for how she was acting but I told her I was sorry and I have have keeped my word and not spent any time with any of my girl friends. none of what I did made her leave or start the fight that she told me she wanted a divorce, what she finally wanted a divorce over was I wanted to be in the room with the doctor and she wanted to hurt me by having me wait outside. I'm working on myself and trying to be a better man for what I have done but it takes 2 and she will not work with me.

Dove83

First contact in 2 weeks was by email to tell me she lost the baby 3 days ago and she is picking up the paperwork for the divorce today. I can't take anymore of this pain.

Atholk

You will get through it. Hang in there.

I remain unconvinced that he baby was yours though. The keeping you out of the doctor's office is a major red flag.

I'm not sure that it's any true comfort though.

So sorry for your situation.

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Dove83

Update, after the email saying she just wants a divorce an nothing from me and had a miscarriage I called the doctor an she says nothing is wrong with the baby. I believe she wants the baby an nothing to do with me or a fight over custody.
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magnoliagal

ok you answered my question...i thought she was lying about the miscarriage.

Dove83

I'm going to talk to a lawyer an fight for custody.
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golfergirl

I understand her being pissed about female - but lying about miscarriage is just cruel!
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paperclip

Tough love dude. The baby is not yours. She lied about the miscarriage because she knows the baby is not yours.

You will not get custody unless you take a paternity test after she has the baby. If the baby is not yours you have no shot to get custody of another mans baby.

She lied to you about the miscarriage because the baby is not yours and doesn't want to give you that pain.

My advice is to forget her and move on. take a paternity test when she has the baby. Then never talk to her again after you find out the baby is not yours.

Niceguy13

have to agree it doesn't sound like the baby is yours

Atholk

You won't get custody because the paternity test will show it's not your baby.

She cheated on you.

You want the paternity test to ensure you don't spend 20-40% of your disposible income for the next 18 years on your ex-wife.

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