05-26-2011, 11:59 AM
Join Date: Mar 2011
| | Re: When/how did you tell your spouse?
My H & I had been fighting for months, and kept going back and fourth as to what we were going to do. Finally one day he told me he wanted a D, so I told him he had to leave.
That was 3 months ago. He has since said he doesn't want a D, he just wants some time to work on himself. I agree that we both need to work on things separately before we can work on our marriage, but I no longer hold out any hope that we will be able to work through this.
I've changed so much in the past 3 months but he isn't able to get over the past. While I can understand where he is coming from, I am not going to beg and plead for him to change his mind. I've made mistakes and I'm owning up to them. If my mistakes have cost me my marriage, I feel just awful about it, but I can't beat myself up over something I can't change.
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