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Old 06-17-2011, 12:19 PM   #61 (permalink)
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**Sharing some advice given to me**At this point, treat her cordially, coolly, unemotionally--the way you would treat a colleague at work. Nice, but nothing over the top. Even-keeled. All business.

You're not over her if you're still freaking you haven't heard from her....I know you're feeling these things you're saying and we are here for you, but you're the only one who can do the work....take the control over you away from her and YOU be in control.
Just a girl: appreciate the kind response, feel better
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Old 06-17-2011, 12:24 PM   #62 (permalink)
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**Sharing some advice given to me**At this point, treat her cordially, coolly, unemotionally--the way you would treat a colleague at work. Nice, but nothing over the top. Even-keeled. All business.
Hey, now! I gave you that advice! LOL
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Old 06-17-2011, 01:18 PM   #63 (permalink)
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Hey, now! I gave you that advice! LOL
jellybeans that is true thanks
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Old 06-20-2011, 02:27 PM   #64 (permalink)
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Hey, now! I gave you that advice! LOL
Cause you're the BOMB!
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Hey, now! I gave you that advice! LOL
Guys, do you hear someone talking? I think I hear someone posting something....
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Old 06-21-2011, 02:56 PM   #66 (permalink)
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Guys, do you hear someone talking? I think I hear someone posting something....
day two no contact, going strong
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Old 06-21-2011, 04:25 PM   #67 (permalink)
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Good keep it up..the no contact.
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Old 06-22-2011, 12:18 PM   #68 (permalink)
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Good keep it up..the no contact.
super tough today, having a bad day
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Old 06-22-2011, 03:03 PM   #69 (permalink)
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Refocus your energy somewhere else. Think of something positive.

Treat yourself to an ice cream. Seriously. Ice cream makes the world go round
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Old 06-23-2011, 07:23 AM   #70 (permalink)
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Refocus your energy somewhere else. Think of something positive.

Treat yourself to an ice cream. Seriously. Ice cream makes the world go round
jellybeans, true that. I did send a text and call once last night, the pain was just unbearable. I feel like a fool, no response. How do people regain hope for a successful relationship down the road? I feel like I am at rock bottom right now. I do work out.
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Old 06-23-2011, 11:55 AM   #71 (permalink)
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You just set the NC time clock back.

Time to restart. Day 1 of NC starts now.

I can tell you this for sure: you will NEVER have the possibility of a new relationshp as long as you're still in contact with her and trying to get back with her.

Your divorce was FIVE years ago. That is a LONG time. You really really need to move on, Fuller!
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You just set the NC time clock back.

Time to restart. Day 1 of NC starts now.

I can tell you this for sure: you will NEVER have the possibility of a new relationshp as long as you're still in contact with her and trying to get back with her.

Your divorce was FIVE years ago. That is a LONG time. You really really need to move on, Fuller!
true that, day 1!
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