My Husband and I have been together for over 10yrs and have 3 children together.
I recently asked him to leave. Because he has cheated on me multiple times. Not sure how many of them were sex but he is really into sexting, and flirting (stroking his ego ) with any woman even my family and friends, oh and also pornography.
He moved out about 3 weeks ago and is staying with a friend. Since he has been gone he has been giving the kids and I a little bit of money but it's not enough to pay the bills.
He goes out to the bars/clubs/casinos and has spent a lot of money on new clothes shoes gambling etc...
I found out last week he ran into my sister and her Best friend at the casino and he tried to get the friend to go back to his place with him and was hanging all over my sister and tried to kiss her
He hasn't made an effort to get counseling or make changes or even say he was sorry but expects me to have sex with him whenever he wants it. If I say no he freaks out and tells me that he is not helping me anymore and to not ask him for anything ever again !! This is so hard