Hello All,
It's been probably a year or so since I was last on, and this site and people have been good in the past. Unfortunately I have reason to be back. My good lady wife has come to the point of no longer wanting to be together. I decision I do not wholly agree on at all, but then there is so often always one side that wants and the other that doesn't.
It has been made clear there is no return on this, she is no longer attracted to me and will be moving out. It has been reasonably amicable at this point although tears (mine) have run.
Anyway to the point, my biggest problem is the thoughts, it's such a struggle to deal with them, all I see is the pictures of what we had so good, the moments the joy, the pleasure and the pain of imagining her doing those things or more with someone else. Obviously the things we did will not necessarily be repeated with others, but it's that thought, how do people deal with that as it is plaguing my mind every second and is killing me.
Anyway hope all are as good as they can be.
It's been probably a year or so since I was last on, and this site and people have been good in the past. Unfortunately I have reason to be back. My good lady wife has come to the point of no longer wanting to be together. I decision I do not wholly agree on at all, but then there is so often always one side that wants and the other that doesn't.
It has been made clear there is no return on this, she is no longer attracted to me and will be moving out. It has been reasonably amicable at this point although tears (mine) have run.
Anyway to the point, my biggest problem is the thoughts, it's such a struggle to deal with them, all I see is the pictures of what we had so good, the moments the joy, the pleasure and the pain of imagining her doing those things or more with someone else. Obviously the things we did will not necessarily be repeated with others, but it's that thought, how do people deal with that as it is plaguing my mind every second and is killing me.
Anyway hope all are as good as they can be.