52flower

He sounds like my ex. He acts like a bully but deep down inside he is a weak and insecure man who turns to vices to feel good. What kept me stuck is that I kept giving him the control. Maybe that's why you are stuck too. It's hard to do but try acting indifferent and matter-of-fact. You don't have to rationalize, explain, or give him details. It's hard, I know. But you are too good for him and should not let him hurt you anymore. He is a selfish loser who doesn't deserve your attention & caring ways. Try to minimize contact with him because it keeps poking at your wounds.