Re: OK, I lost it and I know I did
As a parent, you have the priority right to see your children.
If this was an issue of custody in the court, it would be set in stone in terms of how often, what times, and dates.
I totally understand the game that is being played here, as my wife goes out at times purposely choosing places where there will be her friends who have kids and takes my daughter with her. The "Lure" of a swimming pool, or other kids to play with, makes me feel bad.
My life with my wife has gravitated towards "her" friends, and you build quite the relationship with them over fifteen years. But now that divorce is happening, although they say they wont pick sides, IF I go over there, and my wife is there, its not really comfortable for anyone. So I guess I just get to find alternate times to take my daughter places, or to spend time with her.
His delay, is not a denial.