08-04-2011, 02:32 PM
Join Date: Aug 2009
| | Re: I had my baby...and an epiphany!! LOL
Originally Posted by Yummy2011
Thank you! I am at that point. I cried for months, I was angry, lonely, sad and borderline depressed. I had to snap out of it. I have a 4 day old baby and 8 and 10 year old daughters who need me more than sadness does. I was giving so much energy to the negative that I was missing out on the positive. I'm alive, healthy, my kids are healthy and things are good. I'm letting go and letting God this time. I've tried everything to no avail and it drained me. Time to re-energize, re-evaluate and re-enter life with a new attitude. I'm ok with how things are right now and that's really all I can ask for. Posted via Mobile Device
You are now able to really appreciate the things that are coming your way. I don't know if you are ready for another relationship yet but you will be very blessed when it happens. Your experience alone make you unique, special, and able to recognize what things can truly make you happy. The experience with your ex will give you so many points of view about life in general; you have been given the advantage of wisdom. That can't be taken away from you, use it to make your life, your children's lives, and others lives better ones.
"You desire to know the art of living, my friend? It is contained in one phrase: make use of suffering."- Henri-Frederic Amiel