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Old 08-25-2011, 11:24 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Hi everyone,

I have been listening to this song on repeat. The first time I heard it I was driving feeling paralyzed like she wrote this song just for me!!!! I have read a few interviews she did and this song comes from a break up of a bad relationship. It's pure, honest, simplistic and where I am at right now...

Here my call

Jill Scott - Hear My Call (Official Video) - YouTube

Turning tables just makes me think when you get to the point and don't have anymore and you have to make a decision be strong and go forward...

Turning tables

Adele - Turning Tables (LIVE AOL Sessions HQ) - YouTube
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Old 08-25-2011, 11:32 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Looove the Adele song
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Old 08-26-2011, 08:07 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Oh....this gives me a good idea for a thread....

What song are you right now?
Or what song is your relationship @right now?
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Old 08-26-2011, 08:19 AM   #4 (permalink)
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I have a couple of songs to share...

The first is Lipstick by Elise Estrada

Elise Estrada - Lipstick - YouTube

and the second is A little bit stronger by Sara Evans, this one is my personal favourite right now.

Sara Evans - A Little Bit Stronger - YouTube
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Old 08-26-2011, 08:25 AM   #5 (permalink)
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A little more melancholy but Remind Me

Brad Paisley - Remind Me (Feat. Carrie Underwood) **REAL VERSION** [Lyrics] - YouTube
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I constantly express my state of mind through music.

These are two I posted yesterday on fb.

Modest Mouse - Little Motel - YouTube

Dirty Vegas - Days Go By - YouTube

These are two I consistently come back to

Assemblage 23- Impermanence - YouTube

VNV Nation-Chrome - YouTube

But I'm still reflecting on and mourning my marriage, as well as submersed in the guilt of feeling like I failed him as a wife and friend to help myself. (regardless of the fact that I needed to leave for my own mental well being)
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Heres my contribution, very consoling:
Static-X Team Hate - YouTube
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Another one...

Lonestar-Smile with lyrics - YouTube
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Anna Nalick - Breathe (2AM) - YouTube

BREATHE by Anna Nalick, when the going gets tough...
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Coldplay - Fix You - YouTube

Fix You by Coldplay. For my hubs. He's hurtin' right now.
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Old 08-26-2011, 10:39 AM   #11 (permalink)
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Kenny Chesney - I remember

No youtube link as it's blocked at work!!!!

Then again, this is a depressing song to listen to if you have hope....
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Can't Breath by Fefe Dobson is where I have been since my husband dropped the bomb.

Fefe Dobson - Can't Breathe - YouTube
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No youtube link as it's blocked at work!!!!
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on your url type, go to Swampland:Cultures of the South

Then again, type in YouTube - Broadcast Yourself. (in the address bar on top of the swampland)

See if that gets ya past the block...
We have "quota" time, so it uses the first block, but if you keep it open, you have access all day long

Makes me mad company's do this....
You can't read anything to do with "entertainment" but by golly you can read pages upon pages of sports articles.....

I'm gonna stop there lol
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Don't know about a link. Listening to radio online. Playing right now.

Gives you Hell, by All-American Reject

"When you see my face, I hope it gives you hell."

"When you walk my way, I hope it gives you hell."

some other pretty good lines. Something about when you meet a man that treats you well, he's just a fool.
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EAGLES THE HEART OF THE MATTER 1994 - YouTube

Eagles - The Heart of the Matter

(its about surviving, living your life again, letting go and learning about forgiveness when your relationship ends)
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