Re: The Toolkit of the Confident Man
That's not how it works.
Stay @50k. Recognize things for what they are. Don't be afraid of friction and standing up, as that's the key element in attraction.
What you're missing is that staying with things as they are is the opposite of standing up. It's giving up and settling. You've rationalized it as being strong but this dynamic is driven by fear and a lack of confidence in your partner. Your plan is securing this dynamic to keep on spinning as it is.
Now all of that is your choice but we're just not buying that it's a healthy choice.
I'm as deep as a puddle. Holland.