Honestly fear that If I voiced my opinion in something I didn't agree with then I would lose her...
I'm going to quote someone else here - tell me how you read it:
Indeed many many problems are really only one problem. (UNBE- this is the key)
The "spark", the only way to have a spark is friction.
The friction between a man and woman, this is the spark of sexual attraction.
Any man or woman who never fight, never tangle, never conflict, there is nothing to ignite a spark.
But what can we say about "make up sex"? Where is this roaring fire from, than a spark of conflict leading to it?
And indeed, to begin passing fitness tests, this is not a months or weeks or even days process, it is right here, right now, the opportunity to turn around the resentment filled sexless relationship is immediate!
And exactly right, to not be afraid to "lose" your woman, when the good man realizes this in his actions, behavior, and most important, his attitude, what this potential can lead to emotionally and sexually between him and his woman, I cannot type out on this family forum!
Conflict and confrontation, to the good man, become a master of these.
Then fitness tests, they are not longer any dreaded stumbling blocks, they then are the opportunities and gateways to unleashing passion and sexual experiences between the good man and woman unbelievable, sensual erotic dark and explosive!
Unbe... do you want the above?
What the hell is wrong with you?
Go for it.