Yeah, I could've text-smacked her for that one. My "I know" was directed at her "Miss you", but I guess it let her other stuff slide too. Oh well, it's our first holiday season apart, I cut her a little slack i guess. That song kinda killed me for a while too. Ugh. Wish I could say it was easy to just be over everything, but of course I remember the good times too.
Anyway, taking Red out for a hell of a New Year's Eve tonight, gonna have a blast! Wish everyone luck making it through the rest of the holidays, it can be touch and go. Enjoy as much as possible! Posted via Mobile Device
Yeah, I could've text-smacked her for that one. My "I know" was directed at her "Miss you", but I guess it let her other stuff slide too. Oh well, it's our first holiday season apart, I cut her a little slack i guess. That song kinda killed me for a while too. Ugh. Wish I could say it was easy to just be over everything, but of course I remember the good times too.
Anyway, taking Red out for a hell of a New Year's Eve tonight, gonna have a blast! Wish everyone luck making it through the rest of the holidays, it can be touch and go. Enjoy as much as possible! Posted via Mobile Device
Checking the girl out on the video, Kimbra. Here's a song by her your ex might like.
Now and then I think of when we were together
Like when you said you felt so happy you could die
Told myself that you were right for me
But felt so lonely in your company
But that was love and it's an ache I still remember
You can get addicted to a certain kind of sadness
Like resignation to the end
Always the end
So when we found that we could not make sense
Well you said that we would still be friends
But I'll admit that I was glad it was over
But you didn't have to cut me off
Make out like it never happened
And that we were nothing
And I don't even need your love
But you treat me like a stranger
And that feels so rough
And you didn't have to stoop so low
Have your friends collect your records
And then change your number
I guess that I don't need that though
Now you're just somebody that I used to know
Now you're just somebody that I used to know
Now you're just somebody that I used to know
Now and then I think of all the times you screwed me over
But had me believing it was always something that I'd done
And I don't wanna live that way
Reading into every word you say
You said that you could let it go
And I wouldn't catch you hung up on somebody that you used to know...
But you didn't have to cut me off
Make out like it never happened
And that we were nothing
And I don't even need your love
But you treat me like a stranger
And that feels so rough
And you didn't have to stoop so low
Have your friends collect your records
And then change your number
I guess that I don't need that though
Now you're just somebody that I used to know
I was thinking the guy cheated based on the girls lyrics, but after a second listen, i think I read too much into it. It's vague enough for other interpretations. Posted via Mobile Device
She is still lying and justifying stuff. Such a shameless creature. You should have sent her some of her older texts belittling you. But you don't think it is worth it, right?
that aside, I think the song is about a bad relationship, not necessarily about cheating. I think she is trying to keep you in her life somehow
So OMW is divorcing her H? When did that happen? Posted via Mobile Device
Yeah, OMW contacted me the other day. It'd been two months or so since we last talked, so both updated the other.
I believe she plans to file tomorrow, she's secure in the decision, but is not looking forward to a likely financial battle with her stbxh...wishing her luck. He deserves to have to pay.
Yeah, OMW contacted me the other day. It'd been two months or so since we last talked, so both updated the other.
I believe she plans to file tomorrow, she's secure in the decision, but is not looking forward to a likely financial battle with her stbxh...wishing her luck. He deserves to have to pay.
Did she say why she decided to file? Does your ex know they're getting divorced?
I wouldn't be surprised if OM and the XW had already started seeing each other again. That would have contributed to the breakdown of OMs marriage.
They both still travel, and both know how to hide their tracks better. If he was gaslighting OMW again, the inability to find evidence would have driven her nuts.
Apparently OM has a new OW...he's been telling OMW that they're just friends, etc, blah, same old s**t. She isn't buying it for a second, hence the move to file for divorce. OMW describes her as "barely an adult". Yikes...
That said, he very well could contact my XW. And who knows, given their past she could very likely see him (even though she claims to hate him for "screwing her over" and lying to her. Yeah I know, great logic). XW can do what she wants now - she's a free woman! I could do some light recon for OMW if she wanted though...but she basically said she doesn't care at this point because she's moving forward with the D.
BTW - through all this OMW has not exposed to OM's family...I encouraged her to expose so he can't rewrite history and get off scott free in his family's eyes. But it's not my call, so I didn't push it. And who knows she may be able to use that to her favor in mediation, as he is clearly terrified of his family hearing this news, and may very well be willing to "pay" to keep his secret. For all his "charisma" and bluster, apparently he's a coward.
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Re: Go time...and time to go. Sucks... 
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