09-20-2011, 07:11 PM
Join Date: Sep 2011
| | Re: Wife filed for divorce...
I haven't felt this good since this whole ordeal happened. If you have been following, she left me with a mortgage payment, 2 dogs, and a pile of bills to move to her mothers. I gave her a key to let dogs out at lunch since with gym, work and school I have 13 hour days. Well she got to texting and emailing after 7 days of NC dictating what items I can leave outside for her.
Maybe I am stooping to her level.....but I texted i would put all the items outside. Then something "clicked" in my head....I texted, "I hate you with a passion greater than any love I ever had for you." No response (she problem doesn't even care, look how she left me.) But it felt liberating. The "feeling" in my stomach is gone. I suddenly did not mind being alone in my house, I actual enjoy as i have a potential roomate coming.
After 5 weeks I have accepted my situation. I am by no means happy (yet) but I feel like a big burden has been lifted off my shoulders. Going to lawyer Thursday to hammer her and take half her 401k and all the mortgage payments she's missed.