Re: Dont give up on yourself
Thank you for this post. Its been a tough 14 months of marriage and we've been separated more of the time than not. I AM going to counseling, and it is making a huge difference. You are right. I AM an individual and I've somehow lost that. But now, I'm slowly regaining that. I once believed in the sanctity of marriage, I put a lot of stock into what that meant to me. I accepted my husband and I was going to be there for him, to be his everything, and be the stronghold in his life. And the reality is I can't, if he doesn't want me to. And a part of me hopes that one day he truly realizws what he's lost, because the way I see it, is I'm worth so much more, and I'm learning that its HIS lost not mine. He was the world to me, and I was but a burnt out star in the back of his fading memory. And I must learn to stay positive and remember that there was a different world that existed before he took its place. A beautiful world full of life, love, friends, and family. A world of adventure and excitement.
Thank you for this post, it will help me keep searching for that love that existed before my husband, love for myself and my well being!
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