One LAST attempt??
My H and I have been separated since May due to an affair. He has continued to see the OW and is cake eating. I sent him some terms that he would need to follow before we could think about reconciling. He has not done anythiing. I received a text on my anniversary last week that read, "Best thing I ever did was marry you". Since then we have only communicated through email about kids and finances. I have been doing the 180 and have started to feel better about myself.
I was planning on filing for divorce on October 31st.
My Question - I would like to try attending a marriage retreat weekend in October with him for a last ditch effort on saving our marriage. Since he is still seeing this other girl, do you think I should suggest this or should I just file?