09-27-2011, 03:04 PM
Join Date: Mar 2011
| | Re: One LAST attempt??
Originally Posted by FrustratedFL
My H and I have been separated since May due to an affair. He has continued to see the OW and is cake eating. I sent him some terms that he would need to follow before we could think about reconciling. He has not done anythiing.
My Question - I would like to try attending a marriage retreat weekend in October with him for a last ditch effort on saving our marriage. Since he is still seeing this other girl, do you think I should suggest this or should I just file?
File. As long as he's still seeing her, you don't have a marriage to speak of. He is not fully committed to you. You can tell him that too. "I refuse to live in a open marriage. Either we both fully commit to eachother and that includes no outside parties or contact with the woman you're having ana ffair with, or no dice. This is non-negotiable."
What he chooses will tell you everything.
As of right now, you said yourself he's cake-eating. So don't sit around waiting for him.