My soon to be ex and I were separated for 10 months, got back together for 3 and again separated. It's been 5 months now. A week ago I told him we need to discuss details of our separation agreement and finalize our divorce.
Yesterday when he dropped off our daughter he hugged me and said he misses me. Today he asked me to reconsider and not rush any decisions. Honestly i'd love nothing more than to be together as a family, have more kids and enjoy more financial stability. But I've been so traumatized that I told him it's simply too late. He's telling me to think about our daughters happiness...why wasn't he thinking about her happiness when I kept asking him to move in with me?
Also he's become more religious and very close minded which is part of the reason for our split.
Just when I get to a place of acceptance he drops this on me. I'm so scared. I know our marriage was emotionally destructive...but Im also afraid that as my daughter grows up she will feel lonely with me. I worry for her. I grew up with lots of siblings and I wish she had siblings too.
Yesterday when he dropped off our daughter he hugged me and said he misses me. Today he asked me to reconsider and not rush any decisions. Honestly i'd love nothing more than to be together as a family, have more kids and enjoy more financial stability. But I've been so traumatized that I told him it's simply too late. He's telling me to think about our daughters happiness...why wasn't he thinking about her happiness when I kept asking him to move in with me?
Also he's become more religious and very close minded which is part of the reason for our split.
Just when I get to a place of acceptance he drops this on me. I'm so scared. I know our marriage was emotionally destructive...but Im also afraid that as my daughter grows up she will feel lonely with me. I worry for her. I grew up with lots of siblings and I wish she had siblings too.