Re: Separated wife only wants to be friends
Andy, you're going to be your own worst enemy if you don't learn to detach and make your happiness a.) a priority and b.) your own responsibility instead of so dependent upon what SHE may or may not do/act like.
It won't happen overnight, it'll be gradual, but it's got to start with small, independent steps.
Learn to take control of your own destiny. Find your own identity, one that is wholly defined and owned by YOU. Not by how a woman feels about you or acts toward you... Especially then it's cr@ppy.
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you.
~ A.A. Milne