Re: Wife left my girls and me for a coworker
Ay tomas, you picked the wrong woman to make a wife. She is not wife material and it's that simple. She of course, isn't mother material either.
Her actions speak louder than words Tomas. Her mother leaving dad and family and causing trauma in her life through the low life's she brought home scream of the cycle of abuse your cheating wife is going through. It is your responsibility, as the most sane parent your girls have, that this cycle ends with her and that your girls grow up as healthy adults.
Stop blaming yourself or trying to figure out why. She is damaged and no one can fix her unless she decides that something is wrong with her. She needs to figure that out. You need to take care of yourself and your girls. Please, don't expect too much from her. She is not capable of being a decent mom to your girls. Where ever you can, you must find the money to take care of getting full custody of your girls legally. You owe them that! They need a stable home with at least one decent parent to care for them as they can't do it on their own.
Stay strong, you will reap the benefits when you enjoy seeing your girls become wonderful, healthy adults!
That day will come faster then you think.
Good things come to those who wait...greater things come to those who get off their a$$ and do anything to make it happen.