Re: He says he wants divorce, I don't think he does and I sure don't
You want to wait for him and hope for a miracle. That is not going to happen. He is too far gone from you emotionally, he will not turn back.
You are in his past now. He has been honest with you. You don't want that honesty. You want more lies!
Stop that! You are only prolonging the inevitable. Move on even if it's kicking ans screaming every inch of the way there. It's the only card left on the deck for you. No reconciliation card has ever been offered because it is not in your deck of cards.
Let it go, or keep living in sucky limbo!
Those are your two options. You have no others. Your can't wrap around the idea that he left everything. You can't, he already has not only left you physically but emotionally much longer than that.
Your head is messed up. It doesn't correlate with your feelings. That is going to take time, apparently a long time for you. That doesn't mean your logic is correct. It can't be because you didn't cause this; he did.
You can't fix it because you didn't break it. It's over, you need to listen to others that have been in your shoes. Most WS don't seek reconciliation because they cheated thinking they no longer loved their spouse. They are probably right. They were just not honest until they had set a nest elsewhere.
Believe statistics...they are not in your favor. Your marriage is a casualty of infidelity...not the exception!
Good things come to those who wait...greater things come to those who get off their a$$ and do anything to make it happen.
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