Re: Pushed until I told him to leave...and then he RAN FAST!
Why do I let him get to me!!!? I took a load of stuff up to where he has storage unit today. I had reason to believe he wouldn't be there, so I was just going to drop it off. However, I was wrong...he was there having a "garage sale" out of the unit. And stupid me, instead of driving by, I stopped. This is the first time I have seen him since Sept 5th. I asked him to talk to me. I asked him if he wanted a divorce. He said no. I asked him why he ignored me for a week solid....he said cause he didn't want to talk to me. I asked why he won't talk about the marriage and he said he refuses to talk to me while I am extorting him with his belongings. Which I am not...I am trying to get it back to him, but he rarely responds to me so it makes arrangements rather difficult.
A little background...H had been using a truck that belongs to my oldest son. The thought was that H could probably just have the truck because son doesn't need it. However, H never put the truck into his name. When H left, he left the truck here. Son was in an accident and his daily driver is not driveable. SO 5 days after H left, son asked if he could take the truck with him. H was not communicating with me AT ALL, so I told my son to take his truck home since he needed it and H didn't seem to need it or want it.
Now...H is extremely mad that son took the truck home (he lives about 2.5 hours away). H compared the importance of our marriage to the ownership of the truck. Saying if I cannot uphold the agreement about the truck, then why should he believe that I would uphold our marriage vows that are just a piece of paper. Is that messed up??? Or am I the one who is wrong here?
Anyways talking certainly DID NOT WORK. He continues to blame EVERYTHING on me. He says it might have been wrong to ignore me for a week, but it's his right to decide if he wants to talk to me or not. I guess it is his 'right' but it's not acceptable in a marriage imo.
Just so frustrated that he doesn't care. I don't understand. Maybe I'm not supposed to.
Last edited by howdouknow; 09-24-2016 at 11:38 PM.