Re: Pushed until I told him to leave...and then he RAN FAST!
Wow...yes...many of those describe him very well. It still amazes me how much he got into my mind and was able to essentially control me. I went to a counselor for months telling her that he was wonderful and that all the issues were because of me...talk about feeling crazy! Once I finally saw him for who he is at his been a continuous process of stepping out of the fog. Sometimes it was two steps forward and three steps back. So glad the divorce is done. I have no obligation to talk to him...love him...try to fix him.... None of it helped anyways. He is a man with severe issues. I may not have been a perfect wife...but the divorce was not my fault. The major issues were not my fault.
***sigh of relief*** free from him.