Join Date: Aug 2011
Location: State Home for the Perpetually Annoyed
Re: Need Help On Next Steps
Hi, tribu. Sorry to read that you are on a rocky road in your relationship.
So let's see. You're living with this person, have a 2-1/2 year old son who is probably yours, and she is regularly getting naked with another guy. She works from home, and you stay at home while she works. Got it so far.
The person who keeps your balls in a jar over the fireplace mantle read your text exchange with a friend, in which you didn't call her bad names. You weren't plotting her harm or destruction. You merely expressed your concern that if she didn't stop fvcking the other guy, you might not have a positive relationship with her.
And for this insolence on your part, the person who has systematically stripped you of every last vestige of your manhood decided that the relationship was over, then and there.
To which you figuratively responded by begging and pleading for her not to cut you loose. Actually, I would bet good money that you LITERALLY begged and pleaded.
The main thing I think you need is clarification.
"Strong language" (your words) involves calling her out as the hateful cheating wh0re that she is in real life. Strong language means telling her what an evil contemptible person she is, who is unworthy of the love of a decent man.
On a side note, since she has your permission to have sex with another man, is it actually cheating? I mean, you know she's with him, and you are okay to the extent that you are still with her.
On a second side note, would a decent man share his woman with another man? Could a man who would let his woman have sex with other men even be a decent man?
Sorry, got off track there.
The language you used, such as the term "adversarial," is, in the context it was used, the language of a mangina.
I'm not sure why you're coming on here. If you are looking for someone to post that they agree that "adversarial" was strong language, you aren't going read that. You are going to read different posters saying that you are making a big mistake every day you stay with this person.
In fact, in case no one has done so, I will do it now.
tribu. She doesn't love you. She doesn't even like you. If she liked you, she would not be having hot sex with another guy. She is bad for you. You should do yourself a big favor and leave her.
But if that's too much to handle, just hang around, and she'll leave you. But she'll probably give you an incurable std to remember her by.