Originally Posted by straightshooter View Post
Cheating aside??? Really?? So I guess you think he should just suck it up and it's just fine she decided to express her unhappiness by climbing in bed with another man?
There is no "cheating aside". It's called adultsry and a few of you seem to think it's a satisfactory remedy for not liking your marriage.
I'll bet that's comforting to OP.
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First of all, she didn't climb into bed with another man.
Try reading the original post.
She talked to some guy and had a round of phone sex with him. Not cool, but not much different from jerking it to a cam girl or phone sex line.
Would you be freaking out about that?
And I never said it was a satisfactory response, your triggering assigned that to me. If that's what I thought I would've said it.
I was responding to your comment that he was in the same sh!tty marriage by pointing out that we have no reason to think it was sh!tty to him.
If you can't discuss without hysterical projecting you're not going to be much help.
I like both of your arguments [@straightshooter, @lifeistooshort
You both hold your ground well. You both punch from the shoulder, putting your upper mind-body weight into each blow. Both of you are looking at the problem from all angles.
But here is where I draw the line: Men have binocular vision, can see and adjust for both near and far objects, adjust and scrutinize most any and all problems facing them.
Women also have binocular-vision and have the same forward vision to correct oncoming problems in front
But after attaining majority, women "find" and open their God-Given Eyes in the back of their head
This gives them an unfair advantage.
They see the past as clearly as the present and the future.
You cannot sneak up on them, hitting them with logic bombs. They REM Phase-Shift away.
This [look forward, look back] advantage could be construed as a built in visual "cheat" sheet.
And lastly, they cannot be pinned down, these majority-aged women.....since they are never really present..as in the present..they are tweeners, between yesterday and tomorrow. No man can land a victory blow on a misty miss, who flits as fast as a mouse click.
They remember every last bad thing "wee" men did in that past and when we focus on those "behind" days, these tweeners time-travel forward, soundly popping us in our "today eyes".
The Four-Eyed Ladies rudely awaken us anew. Yea, I know....divorce, don't cheat is a thin sheet on a Queen sized bed.
God gave women pvssys and men hair-lips.
I hate losing what I do not have, what I wish I had..........