Re: Mixed signals and false starts
Okay, so it's been a good bit since I've posted on here...
Things have been going great! New place is working out, went on a date last Friday that was fun, but no real sparks on my end. That was ideal actually; I got to get back out there and not have the pressure or expectation of feelings.
The TV show I optioned is picking up steam and I've been playing music out a lot. Overall, a lot of good stuff!
And then I come home tonight after playing music with a friend and see this e-mail from my STBXW:
"I received notice today that the paperwork was found to be null and therefor we have to start the process over including the 6 month wait time. I am going to hire a lawyer to redo everything and will keep you posted."
WTF! WTF! WTF! Seriously, I don't even begin to understand what the hell this is.
I mean, we were 3 months to do the day until our divorce was supposed to be final. I was finally accepting it, dealing with triggers much better and adapting (even enjoying) my new life. And now I have to go through the ENTIRE PROCESS all over again? Getting served? Filling out documents? Notarizing my paperwork??? Not to mention, BEING FREAKING LEGALLY MARRIED TO SOMEONE I HAVEN'T EVEN SEEN IN 8 AND A HALF MONTHS TO DATE!
Sorry for the all caps stuff, I never do that, but this is just nuts. I mean, how do I even respond to that? I want to demand to see the notice she received and ask that we do everything in our power to make the original timeline stick.
I never wanted this divorce, but f#k, if this is reality just get it over and done with. I don't want to go through the whole crappy thing again.
Anyone have experience with this? Why would it come back null with no chance to fix whatever it was that wasn't right? Do any of you think this is a manipulation of some kind? Ugh, I thought I was finally on the other side of this.